Someone said to me this statement:
“It may not be any of my business but I really think you should talk to your family.”
They are right it is none of their business. There are reasons why I don’t talk to specific members of my family due to situations they have put me through in my life. That doesn’t give this person the right to tell me they feel I should talk to them.
I get that they have lost their parents, I have lost my father as well.
I get that they have had a member die in their arms, I have not had that; however I have been there for them for all of their painful moments in their life. I cannot say the same for this person. When I was going through the loss of my father they refused to be there for me- it was too painful for them, it was too raw. So I sought out others who were there and who still are. When I had a biopsy recently I reached out thinking they would be there to ask if I needed anything or to check in on me- I got nothing in return.
I have written here about one way streets, give and not getting, being used and always being the one who provides. Well now here is my sentiment,
It is none of your business what I do.
Free at last from the shackles of a friendship gone bad. Never let anyone hold you down. Not even someone you thought was a friend.